THE ART AND SCIENCE OF RELATIONSHIP

"Starielle is a Relational Genius"

— Julia Allison, Journalist and Star of Bravo's Series Miss Advised

Are You the Reason Why You are Still Single?

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Hi, I'm Starielle

I am a Relationship Performance Coach, and for over a decade I reverse engineered what makes romantic relationships successful, using a data-driven, evidence based approach in order to decode love & relationships.

I work with intelligent, growth-oriented men who have been professionally successful but struggle to find the same success in their romantic lives. I help men break through subconscious patterns, so they can master the Art of dating and intimacy and attract lasting partners.

My work lies at the intersection of modern psychology, Internal Family Systems, somatic work, and tantra. In 2024, I founded the Institute for Relational Intelligence which is dedicated to supporting research that advances the understanding of tools and modalities to support deeper connection to self and others.

A Data-Driven Approach to Love.

Backed by the Institute for Relational Intelligence, my work combines cutting-edge scientific research. By integrating the latest insights from neuroscience, evolutionary psychology, and somatic therapies, I offer a data-driven approach to dating, love, intimacy and relationships.

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